I dont even need to mention who this is to...

Ok, so I've let it slide for way too long. Its gotten to the stage where you EXPECT me to cook for you, where YOU believe that I should spend the rest of my life as a housewife, in the kitchen all day slaving over the cook top while you have your own fun. Sure I enjoy it, but when you then go ahead and speak to me with absolutely no respect whatsoever and tell me like a servant "Here, have a kinder and get back to cooking;" it not only kills my joy but also makes me feel like throwing everything I've just cooked in your face. Of course I don't because I care too much about you to see you have hot soup, orange syrup, stewed apples and spaghetti all over you (and honestly, I would rather not waste good food either.)

Its simply not enough to say you respect me then turn around and treat me with no respect. I dont care if you told me you love me, (well yeah I do, but I digress) treat me with respect or Ill be out of your life the moment I get back to Australia. Dont think Im kidding either. I'm learning that it is simply not ok for a friend who supposedly cares so much to treat their friend like a worker; or worse: a servant. Wash your own dishes, cook your own food, clean up after yourself and start remembering things like your credit card because its these things along with you treating me and everyone else with no respect that is making me start to lose respect for you. Clean up your act and start treating me and everyone else better; or see us all walk away and leave you lonely.