...or don't say hi back. That's cool. You know, it's not like I'm totally confused about what's going on and why I'm suddenly on the out at all.
I'm letting this go and not worrying because it's your perogative to be like this. If you have a problem with me, it's your problem now. I took the feedback into consideration and changed myself; put my self into a personal revitalising, happier mood self-retreat phase for a couple of weeks and worked really hard at it. I've come out the other end feeling much better about myself, but for some reason this doesn't seem resolved. I don't know what to do now; I've done what you want, but that still doesn't seem to be enough.
So here it is, (recognise those words?) in my personal retreat, I decided to start following the words of the late Ms Munroe:
I guess what I'm trying to say is that I don't need people to be like this to me and I certainly do not deserve this. I'd like things resolved and to be all good again, but I can't always have what I want and I know that. I don't expect others to change according to my will and I certainly don't think others should expect it of me. Be the change you see in the world is a quote I have always loved. I know you've gotten me through some of the hardest parts of the last few months and I appreciate that much more than you know; but I shouldn't be hated on and ignored just because I got sick and decided it wasn't a good idea for me to be involved in the plan. It was not a selfish decision, but a decision I made because I didn't want others to be worrying about me and because I was genuinely sick and tired.
It really hurts that even though we talked about NYE and all that and that we were happy for it to be resolved (well, I was anyway) and that I've changed myself to make life easier on you (and now myself as a result) only to be ignored and cast away. I thought you were one of my best friends. I miss you friend; whether you realise it or not. Please, let's get this resolved once and for all. Please.
I'm letting this go and not worrying because it's your perogative to be like this. If you have a problem with me, it's your problem now. I took the feedback into consideration and changed myself; put my self into a personal revitalising, happier mood self-retreat phase for a couple of weeks and worked really hard at it. I've come out the other end feeling much better about myself, but for some reason this doesn't seem resolved. I don't know what to do now; I've done what you want, but that still doesn't seem to be enough.
So here it is, (recognise those words?) in my personal retreat, I decided to start following the words of the late Ms Munroe:
“I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best.”
I guess what I'm trying to say is that I don't need people to be like this to me and I certainly do not deserve this. I'd like things resolved and to be all good again, but I can't always have what I want and I know that. I don't expect others to change according to my will and I certainly don't think others should expect it of me. Be the change you see in the world is a quote I have always loved. I know you've gotten me through some of the hardest parts of the last few months and I appreciate that much more than you know; but I shouldn't be hated on and ignored just because I got sick and decided it wasn't a good idea for me to be involved in the plan. It was not a selfish decision, but a decision I made because I didn't want others to be worrying about me and because I was genuinely sick and tired.
It really hurts that even though we talked about NYE and all that and that we were happy for it to be resolved (well, I was anyway) and that I've changed myself to make life easier on you (and now myself as a result) only to be ignored and cast away. I thought you were one of my best friends. I miss you friend; whether you realise it or not. Please, let's get this resolved once and for all. Please.
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